On a recent Thursday morning, I made a common detour onto the access road headed for McDonald’s to collect my dose of unsweetened iced tea.\u00a0 On many mornings, I pass several semi-trucks parked along the fence lining this road.\u00a0 I typically do not see the drivers, but on this day, I observed a trucker attempting to parallel park a double semi-trailer between two other trucks.\u00a0 I admired his skill as he competently slid this big rig into a tight parking spot.\u00a0 Contemplating my own experience with parallel parking a small SUV, I imagined how difficult it would be to maneuver a vehicle of this size.<\/p>\n
My father was a career truck driver until he retired after forty years from Terminal Transport. He took great pride in his ability to drive the big rigs and considered himself a professional driver.\u00a0 This identity took on new dimensions when my teenage self reached driving age.\u00a0 He was my teacher and he was tough.<\/p>\n
Driving, like many life markers, is ordinary because it is a common rite of passage for most teenagers.\u00a0 Yet driving also is extraordinary because it marks the beginning of new freedoms and responsibilities.<\/p>\n
This relationship between the ordinary and extraordinary seems woven into life\u2019s fabric. While we may long for extraordinary moments, adventures planned, and otherwise, simple hindsight often attests to the impact of those ordinary times in life revealed in extraordinary results.\u00a0 Small and seemingly insignificant choices and events often have big consequences.<\/p>\n
Perhaps that is what my father was really trying to teach me all along.\u00a0 But, my teenage self did not appreciate my father\u2019s tutorage.\u00a0 \u201cDad it\u2019s a Mercury Cougar,\u201d not a semi-truck,\u201d I whined, in response to his seemingly incessant corrections.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen you have been driving forty years, you can have an opinion,\u201d my father retorted.\u00a0 \u201cUntil that time, you will do it my way.\u201d<\/p>\n
Several months later, the brakes failed in that same car as I was driving my mom to the grocery store at Central Point Shopping Center.\u00a0 I was in the center lane and traffic was heavy.\u00a0 As a new driver, my instinct was to panic, but I could hear my dad\u2019s voice in my head telling me to stay calm regardless of the circumstance.\u00a0 Methodically, I reached for the turn signal and thanks to the kindness of a stranger in the next lane, I was able to change lanes and swerve into a nearby parking lot burying the front end of the car into a set of hedges.\u00a0 No one was hurt and the car escaped serious damage.<\/p>\n
Meditation<\/strong><\/p>\n It is often said that hindsight is 20\/20.\u00a0 Extraordinary moments make for lasting memories.\u00a0 Yet, in looking back at life, like a grand tapestry, clearly it was the countless decisions made within the context of the ordinary day that has the most profound impact on life. Ordinary moments provide the foundation for the extraordinary life.<\/p>\n So today, I raise my glass of iced tea to those ordinary moments and ordinary days. While we can certainly celebrate the extraordinary events of life, so should we also cherish those ordinary days that fill life with substance.<\/p>\n As for my dad\u2019s advice \u2013 of course, my dad\u2019s words were a bit more colorful at that time and it has been more than forty years.\u00a0 So now I get to have an opinion.\u00a0 Guess what, dad?\u00a0 You were right.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" On a recent Thursday morning, I made a common detour onto the access road headed for McDonald’s to collect my dose of unsweetened iced tea.\u00a0 On many mornings, I pass several semi-trucks parked along the fence lining this road.\u00a0 I typically do not see the drivers, but on this day, I observed a trucker attempting […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2443,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[695,696],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1401","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-favorites","category-feed-your-spirit"],"yoast_head":"\n